I need to...
Home » Become A Better Person

The Personable Side of Lawyering

11 January 2013 Written by: Amanda Green No Comment

When you study medicine part of your coursework includes the development of a good “bedside manner.” Unfortunately, studying the law has no “bedside manner” equivalent coursework, which might be why so many lawyers have a difficult time retaining individual clients and making places for themselves within the companies that have hired them. If you want to eschew the “cold” stereotype often associated with lawyers, here are some things you can do.

Find Someone to Emulate

Believe it or not, there are lawyers out there who are beloved by their clients—and not just for their legal savvy. There are some lawyers, like attorney Morgan Chu, who can make a great balance of sharp legal skills while being approachable and making their clients feel cared about as people at the same time. Study these lawyers, watch them as they work with their clients and then copy the things they do. Ask them what they do to put their clients at ease. Then take what you see and what they tell you to heart and apply it to your own client base.

 Learn to Actively Listen

There is more to listening than just drilling down to the core of whatever legal issue your clients need help with. Everything from body language to offhanded quips can tell you volumes about the people you are working with. Instead of rushing them through their stories to get to the legal issues, let them vent to you about their problems. Clients who feel like you are genuinely listening to them instead of forcing them to be all business all the time are more likely to hire you again in the future.

 Remember the Details

Your clients have birthdays. They celebrate holidays. They have families. If you are actively listening to them, you will learn these details. Commit them to memory—put them on your calendar. A card sent for a birthday or holiday (with a short but personal handwritten note) can go a long way toward endearing you to your clients and coworkers. Remembering to ask about a child’s play or recital, a relative’s health, etc—they all seem like small details but remembering them shows that you care about your clients and that you are more than just a suit who wants to bill them for something.

 When in Doubt, More Communication is the Way to Go

Keep your clients in the loop. If you haven’t touched base with them about their case in a while, do so—even if nothing has happened. Let them know where things are, process-wise. If the case is over, do at least a couple of follow up calls or visits to see how the client is handling the aftermath of their lawsuit. Most importantly: do not bill your clients for these follow ups or check-ins. Calling them and then billing them for accepting the call is the exact opposite of being a personable and relatable lawyer.

There are lots of ways to improve your attorney bedside manner. Each client is different so different techniques are going to work for different people. Still, the tips here are a good place from which to start with each client and coworker.





Amanda Green is a freelance writer who writes on numerour topics across the web. She is a student by day and a blogger by trade. Her main writing interested include finance, business, education, and career, although she has been known to mix in random topics so she doesn't get bored.

You can learn so much about this author by clicking here.

Leave your response!

Add your comment below, or trackback from your own site. You can also subscribe to these comments via RSS.

Be nice. Keep it clean. Stay on topic. No spam.

You can use these tags:
<a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>

This is a Gravatar-enabled weblog. To get your own globally-recognized-avatar, please register at Gravatar.